当孩子逐渐长大，父母开始在给予和获得的关系上设定边界，使得孩子可以慢慢学习离开家，过独立的生活。做一个好父母意味着，有时必须让孩子失望，拒绝孩子的要求；允许孩子去有负面的经历，去失败，从而学习。

伯特·海灵格

白发捏不尽，根在愁肠中。

丰子恺

经历过孤独的日子，我终于喜欢上自己的无知，与它们相处我感到惬意，如同那是一炉旺火。

玛格丽特·杜拉斯

作为一个有创造力的人，你能拥有的最危险的想法是认为你知道自己在做什么。

The most dangerous thought you can have as a creative person is to think you know what you're doing.

艾伦·凯

不怕没好事，就怕没好人。

单田芳

我觉得最具价值的一条建议是：经常思考你能否把事情做得更好，不断自我反省。

I think that’s the single best piece of advice: constantly think about how you could be doing things better and questioning yourself.

埃隆·马斯克

I'm drawn to a lovely quote by St. Augustine in "The City of God," where he says, "It's a sin to judge any man by his post." In modern English that would mean it's a sinto come to any view of who you should talk to, dependent on their business card. It's not the post that should count. According to St. Augustine, only God can really put everybody in their place; he's going to do that on the Day of Judgment, with angels and trumpets, and the skies will open. Insane idea, if you're a secularist person, like me. But something very valuable in that idea, nevertheless.

我很喜欢圣奥古斯丁在“上帝之城”里的一句话，他说“以社会地位评价人是一种罪”。用现在的口吻说，看一个人的名片来决定你是否要和他交谈是罪。对圣奥古斯丁来说，人的价值不在他的社会地位，只有神可以决定一个人的价值，他将在天使围绕、小号奏鸣，天空破开的世界末日给于最后审判，如果你是像我一样的世俗论者，这想法太疯狂了，但这想法有它的价值。