Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move.
大家都不了解,女人决定结婚生子时,她的生命一方面开始了,另一方面却结束了。生活开始充斥琐碎的事,你停下脚步,呆在原地,好让你的孩子能够任意来去。
【释义】心境不清明,就无法领悟正道;志向不坚定,就无法成就事业。
出自《论语·宪问篇》。遇到事情,不去抱怨上天,也不要去责备别人,应当能够扪心自问,好好地反省自己。