解释：君子有三件值得可惜的事：一辈子不学习，是第一件可惜的事；一天无所事事，是第二件可惜的事；一个人的名声败坏，是第三件可惜的事。

The psychologist must avoid all teleological interpretations.

爱是一种极其困难的领悟，即认识到除了自己之外还有其他事物是真实的。

I believe that the testing of the student's achievements in order to see if he meets some criterion held by the teacher, is directly contrary to the implications of therapy for significant learning.