It’s not the having, it’s the getting.

You don't get over a loss like that; you learn to live with it.

Power is not given to you. You have to take it.

解释：只要有一人起表率作用，就能带动其他人效仿。一个人的行为和言行影响着他人的行为和态度。

子贡问怎样实现仁，孔子说：“工人要做好工，必先磨好工具。生活在那里，就要追随那里的品德高尚的领导，结交那里的仁义之士。”

"We are all prisoners of our own experiences, and yet we can never fully understand them."