当儿童还没有发展起控制能力的时候，让儿童想干什么就干什么是与自由观念相违背的。

It's perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living. It's perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety. I want to look now, if I may, at some of the reasons why we might be feeling anxiety about our careers. Why we might be victims of these career crises, as we're weeping softly into our pillows. One of the reasons why we might be suffering is that we are surrounded by snobs.

I don’t let pressure break me, I let it make me.

记忆是对幸存者的一种惩罚。