而是
The important thing in life is not the triumph but the struggle.
The essential thing is not to have conquered but to have fought well.
The essential thing in life is not so much conquering as fighting well.
The important thing in life is not victory but combat; it is not to have vanquished but to have fought well.
The most important thing in the Olympic Games is not winning but taking part; the essential thing in life is not conquering but fighting well.