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It's not what happens to us， but our response to what happens to us that hurts us.
Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.
We don't invent our missions, we detect them.
——辛格1978年诺贝尔文学奖获奖演说
Goals are not meant to be dreamed; they’re meant to be achieved.
Sleep is not a luxury; it’s a necessity for your brain.
Success is not an accident; it’s the result of habits.
The key to speed reading is not reading faster, but understanding faster.
Reading is not a movement of the eyes; it’s a movement of the mind.
Forgetting is not a memory problem; it’s an attention problem.
Memory is not fixed; it’s a skill you can train.
