The best moments in our lives are not the passive, receptive, relaxing times... The best moments usually occur if a person's body or mind is stretched to its limits in a voluntary effort to accomplish something difficult and worthwhile.

The past is always changing. Every time we remember something, we alter it slightly, until eventually, our memories become stories we tell ourselves.

In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

我不相信运气，我相信准备遇到机会。

There are only two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants and the other is getting it.