伤害我们的并非我们的遭遇，而是我们对此的回应。
It's not what happens to us， but our response to what happens to us that hurts us.
“风过而竹不留声”，“雁过而潭不留影”，大千世界的种种现象都只是表象，真正具备君子品性的人，才能看清它们的本质，当事情来临时，他的良知就会发挥作用，事情过去之后，一切又归于清净虚空，因此他总能坦坦荡荡无忧无惧。
"The truth has never been of any real value to any human being - it is a symbol for mathematicians and philosophers to pursue. In human relations kindness and lies are worth a thousand truths."
