有关自己的20句名人名言哲理格言警句语录

在怀疑时，克制自己。

Dans le doute, abstiens-toi.

让·拉辛

与他人比较是让我们对自己的生活感觉更糟的可靠方法。

Comparing ourselves to others is a surefire way to feel worse about our own lives.

劳里·桑托斯

幸福不是现成的东西。它来自于你自己的行动。

Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.

劳里·桑托斯

我们越了解自己的偏见，就越能利用它们为自己服务。

The more we understand our biases, the more we can use them to our advantage.

塔利亚·沙罗特

我们对自己生活的叙述塑造了我们的现实。

The stories we tell ourselves about our lives shape our reality.

塔利亚·沙罗特

人大多由基因和环境塑造，但在这些限制之内，他们有一定的自由选择自己的道路。

People are mostly shaped by their genes and their environment, but within those constraints, they have some freedom to choose their own path.

乔纳森·海特

从社会控制中解放自己的最重要一步是能够在每一刻的事件中找到奖励。

The most important step in emancipating oneself from social controls is the ability to find rewards in the events of each moment.

米哈里·契克森米哈赖

悲观主义者的决定性特征是，他们倾向于相信坏事会持续很长时间，会破坏他们所做的一切，并且是他们自己的错。

The defining characteristic of pessimists is that they tend to believe bad events will last a long time, will undermine everything they do, and are their own fault.

马丁·塞利格曼

意义来自于属于和服务于超越你自己的事物。

Meaning comes from belonging to and serving something beyond yourself.

马丁·塞利格曼

你越是处于心流状态，你就越能发展技能，取得的成就越多，对自己的感觉就越好。

The more you're in the state of flow, the more you'll develop skills, the more you'll achieve, and the more you'll feel good about yourself.

马丁·塞利格曼

当你经历生活给我们所有人带来的挫折时，改变你对自己说的那些破坏性的话是乐观的核心技能。

Changing the destructive things you say to yourself when you experience the setbacks that life deals all of us is the central skill of optimism.

马丁·塞利格曼

幸福不能只存在于你自己的头脑中。幸福是感觉良好与实际拥有意义、良好关系和成就的结合。

Well-being cannot exist just in your own head. Well-being is a combination of feeling good as well as actually having meaning, good relationships and accomplishment.

马丁·塞利格曼

你只要找到一些你喜爱的人，相比光去找有钱人，复制他们的模式更好。如果我是你的话，我会尽量跟有智慧的人在一起，然后跟他们一起学习，我自己去进行学习、尝试。