进化心理学不是关于人性中不可改变的部分，而是关于在我们祖先环境中具有适应性的部分。

"The past is always present in the stories we tell."

The world is full of stories, but the stories are all one.

Psychological truth is what works in the practical world.

Diplomacy is the continuation of war by other means.

When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated.