Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.

人们为了不被他人评判，所以急于评判他人。

The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool.

关系型数据库管理方法不仅仅是一种技术；它是一种关于数据的思考方式。

自由是心灵的状态，获取它的最好方式是培育它。

宁静的灵魂比烦乱的灵魂更为智慧。