I do not wish them [women] to have power over men; but over themselves.
I don't want to be compared to anyone. I want to make my own history.
所谓意念诚实,就是说不要自己欺骗自己,像厌恶难闻气味那样厌恶邪恶,像喜爱美丽的女子一样喜爱善良,这样才能说心安理得,所以君子在一个人独处时必定要谨慎。