子曰:“乐而不淫,哀而不伤。”
【译文】 孔子说:“《关雎》这篇诗,快乐却不淫秽,悲哀却不伤痛。”
I do not wish them [women] to have power over men; but over themselves.
我不害怕与众不同,我害怕千篇一律。
Success comes from hard work and dedication.