If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.

人类本性中最深层的原则是渴望被欣赏。

In other words, hold your horses when you're coming to judge people. You don't necessarily know what someone's truevalue is. That is an unknown part of them, and we shouldn't behave as though it is known. There is another source of solace and comfort for all this. When we think about failing in life, when we think about failure, one of the reasons why we fear failing is not just a loss of income, a loss of status. What we fear is the judgment and ridicule of others. And it exists.

我不追求目标、体系或倾向；我没有计划、风格或方向。