她太怪了,我们无法想象自己与她扯上关系,她的语调令人发噱,来自一个奇怪的地方,我们与她毫无关联。当你认为你与这个人毫无关联时,你便不会嫉妒。越是两个年龄、背景相近的人,越容易陷入嫉妒的苦海,所以千万避免去参加同学会。因为没有比同学,更强烈的参照点了。
You can't just sit there and wait for people to give you that golden dream. You've got to get out there and make it happen for yourself.
分散化既是被观察到的也是明智的;任何不隐含分散化优势的行为规则,无论是作为假设还是格言,都必须被拒绝。
You better not run out on a check... The people that are working for three dollars an hour have to pay your bill