婚姻不是两个半人的结合，而是两个完整人的分享。

I have a vivid memory of what happened， and it was not what I expected. I expected to be applauded for my cleverness and arithmetic skills. "Jeff， you're so smart. You had to have made some tricky estimates， figure out the number of minutes in a year and do some division." That's not what happened. Instead， my grandmother burst into tears. I sat in the backseat and did not know what to do. While my grandmother sat crying， my grandfather， who had been driving in silence， pulled over onto the shoulder of the highway. He got out of the car and came around and opened my door and waited for me to follow. Was I in trouble？ My grandfather was a highly intelligent， quiet man. He had never said a harsh word to me， and maybe this was to be the first time？ Or maybe he would ask that I get back in the car and apologize to my grandmother. I had no experience in this realm with my grandparents and no way to gauge what the consequences might be. We stopped beside the trailer. My grandfather looked at me， and after a bit of silence， he gently and calmly said， "Jeff， one day you'll understand that it's harder to be kind than clever."

我清晰地记得接下来发生了什么，而那是我意料之外的。我本期待着小聪明和算术技巧能赢得掌声，但那并没有发生。相反，我的祖母哭泣起来。我的祖父之前一直在默默开车，把车停在了路边，走下车来，打开了我的车门，等着我跟他下车。我惹麻烦了吗？我的祖父是一个智慧而安静的人。他从来没有对我说过严厉的话，难道这会是第一次？还是他会让我回到车上跟祖母道歉？我以前从未遇到过这种状况，因而也无从知晓会有什么后果发生。我们在房车旁停下来。祖父注视着我，沉默片刻，然后轻轻地、平静地说："杰夫，有一天你会明白，善良比聪明更难。"

杰夫·贝索斯

只有感官才能拯救灵魂，就像只有灵魂才能拯救感官一样。

奥斯卡·王尔德

做好准备。当你完成任何大型项目（房子、电影、活动、App）的90%时，其余无数的细节将需要第二个90%来完成。

Be prepared: When you are 90% done any large project (a house， a film， an event， an app) the rest of the myriad details will take a second 90% to complete.

凯文·凯利

有德必有勇，正直的人绝不胆怯。

莎士比亚

和人打交道时，请牢记这一点——人并非理性生物。他们由情感驱使，被偏见支配，傲慢与虚荣是他们的动力之源。

卡耐基

好酒无需招牌。

莎士比亚

世间原有些作为，超乎语言文字之外。

冰心

差之毫厘，失之千里。

吴承恩

当世界带给这种机会时聪明人会敏锐地看到这种赌注。当他们有机会时他们就投下大赌注。其余时刻不下注。事情就这么简单。