One isn't born one's self. One is born with mass of expectations, a mass of other people's ideas.
人并非生来就是自己。人出生时背负着一大堆期望,一大堆别人的想法。
Train people well enough so they can leave, treat them well enough so they don't want to.
如果你一直做你一直在做的事,你将一直得到你一直得到的东西。