Psychology must be a science of phenomena, not noumena.
心理学必须是一门现象的科学，而非本体。
事物之间的空间往往比事物本身更重要。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
The past is never dead. It's not even past.
