Life is about creating yourself, not finding yourself.
生活是关于创造自己，而不是寻找自己。
我不喜欢渺小，我喜欢强大。
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.
To live remains an art which everyone must learn，and which no one can teach.
