The speech we hear is an indication of that which we don't hear. It is a necessary avoidance, a violent, sly, anguished or mocking smokescreen which keeps the other in its place.
人们常只想到自己的需要,而没考虑自己的能力。王朔语录
事实是,每个人都会伤害你;你只需要找到那些值得你为之受苦的人。