为你的婚姻做准备的最佳时间是在你拥有婚姻之前。
The best time to work on your marriage is before you have one.
We must face reality, even if it is cruel.
The best decisions are made at the intersection of data and intuition.
Three things you need: The ability to not give up something till it works, the ability to give up something that does not work, and the trust in other people to help you distinguish between the two.