The stranger is an element of the group itself, not unlike the poor and sundry 'inner enemies'—an element whose membership within the group involves both being outside it and confronting it.
陌生人是群体本身的一个元素,与穷人和各种“内部敌人”并无不同——一个在群体中的成员身份既涉及在其外部又涉及面对它的元素。
You are not the opinion of somebody who doesn't know you.
过分宠爱会使人变得傲慢,过多的恩惠反而可能引起怨恨!这平衡之道,太微妙了!并且给予恩惠要适度,以免适得其反!
译文:把读书看成功业,用一生的时间去做,自然就会得到读书带来的乐趣;心存善念,多做善事,不必去争那些乐善好施的虚名。赏析:读书和做善事一样,不必在乎那些功利的想法。读书应该用心,读书的乐趣不是用金钱的多少来衡量的。做好事,只要问心无愧,不必非得让别人知道。