写作就是面对我们过去的幽灵，给它们一个声音，也许，让它们自由。
To write is to confront the ghosts of our past, to give them a voice, and perhaps, to set them free.
你的自我价值由你自己决定。你不必依赖别人告诉你你是谁。
Half the world is composed of people who have something to say and can't, and the other half who have nothing to say and keep on saying it.
让男孩们表现良好的最好方法是让他们对有价值的事情保持兴趣。
美丽的眼睛能发现他人身上的美德，迷人的嘴唇能吐露善意的话语，优雅的姿态是因为了解自己不是孤立独行。
And when you’re down in the hole， when that moment comes， it’s really okay to feel bad for a little while. Give yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost but then here’s the key， learn from every mistake because every experience， encounter， and particularly your mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move.