“让一步风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”，让步不一定是懦弱，退步不一定是退缩，换个方向，寻求更为有利的支点才是最重要的。宽以待人，得饶人处且饶人，当你包容别人的时候，其实也就放下了自己的成见，就会少了一份纠结，这何尝不是另一种福分呢？利人才会真正利己，人都是相互的。

Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.

"写作是一种孤独的旅程，但正是这种孤独让我们更接近自己。"