Poverty is not the issue, but greed is.
释义:怠慢他所尊敬的人会招致凶祸,表面上关系密切而内心疏远的人会陷入孤立,亲近进谗言的人而疏远忠诚正直的人会导致灭亡。这是对人际关系中不良行为后果的警示。
家中的事情,尽可外传,就可了解君子的家法是如何的端正无瑕;亲近的人,都恭敬谨肃,就可了解君子对自身要求多么严格正派。
The success of diplomacy lies in truly understanding the needs and interests of the other party, and seeking possibilities for cooperation based on that understanding.