我们不是通过经验学习，而是通过对经验的反思学习。

一有私念，就会迷惑昏庸；一耍脾气，处事就会偏颇无理性。

"A story is a letter that the author writes to himself, to tell himself things that he would be unable to discover otherwise."

在爱情中我们都是傻瓜。