She's simply too strange. We can't relate to her, she speaks in a funny way, she comes from an odd place. So we can't relate to her, and when you can't relate to somebody, you don't envy them. The closer two people are -- in age, in background, in the process of identification -- the more there's a danger of envy, which is incidentally why none of you should ever go to a school reunion, because there is no stronger reference point than people one was at school with.

意识不是一种事物，而是一种适应性反应的动态流动。

过去是一个陌生的国度；那里的人做事方式不同。

我不能选择那最好的，是那最好的选择了我。