孔子说:“陪君子说话要注意三种毛病:没到说的时候就说,叫做急躁;到该说的时候不说,叫做隐瞒;不顾对方的表情就说,叫做睁眼瞎。”
译文:古人最忌讳,表面对人顺从,背地里却反对。
The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.