过分宠爱会使人变得傲慢,过多的恩惠反而可能引起怨恨!这平衡之道,太微妙了!并且给予恩惠要适度,以免适得其反!
To love is to risk being destroyed. To not love is to destroy yourself.
出自《海国图志序》。学习外国的长处用来征服外国。