我写作是为了挑战现状，质疑既定的东西。

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

"I am not a word, I am a voice."

珍贵的宝物容易求得，而真心相待的郎君却难以寻觅