谗不自来,因疑而来;间不自入,乘隙而入。
谗言不会自己来,而是因为心中有猜疑才来;离间的话不会自己钻入,而是因为有了缝隙才来。
改变某人最有效的方法是改变你与他们互动的方式。
Sometimes the simplest questions lead to the deepest theories.
The world is full of people who have never, since childhood, met an open doorway with an open mind.