你是自己生活的讲述者，你可以创造自己的传奇，也可以不创造。

Turn up the love

对于忠告，你所能做的，就是把它奉送给别人，忠告从来就不是给自己准备的。

"The stories we love best are the ones that stay with us long after we've finished reading."

So what I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas, and make sure that we own them; that we are truly the authors of our own ambitions. Because it's bad enough not getting what you want, but it's even worse to have an idea of what it is you want, and find out, at the end of the journey, that it isn't, in fact, what you wanted all along.

飞蓬生长在麻地里，不用扶持也能挺立；白沙混进黑色泥土，也会跟着一起变黑。

心理学应关注心灵如何运作以解决实际问题，而不仅仅是其抽象结构。

Once we accept our limits, we go beyond them.

我记得我的朋友约翰尼·冯·诺伊曼曾经说过，“用四个参数我可以拟合一头大象，用五个我可以让它摆动它的鼻子。”