子贡说:“贫穷却不阿谀奉承,富贵却不狂妄自大,怎样?”孔子说:“可以。不如穷得有志气,富得有涵养的人。”子贡说:“修养的完善,如同玉器的加工:切了再磋,琢了再磨,对吧?”孔子说:“子贡啊,现在可以与你谈诗了。说到过去,你就知道未来。”
释义:兵法的要旨在于灵活应变,善于了解和掌握军事的本质,行动之前必须先预测敌人的动向。
I think that the most important thing is to be true to yourself. You have to be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want.