The only thing that’s keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself.
孔子说:“有益的朋友有三种,有害的朋友有三种。与正直的人交朋友、与诚实的人交朋友、与见多识广的人交朋友,有益处;与走邪门歪道的人交朋友、与谗媚奉迎的人交朋友、与花言巧语的人交朋友,有害处。”
The more you love, the more you can love—and the more intensely you love.