Efficiency is highly overrated； Goofing off is highly underrated. Regularly scheduled sabbaths， sabbaticals， vacations， breaks， aimless walks and time off are essential for top performance of any kind. The best work ethic requires a good rest ethic.

最重要的是唤醒孩子自己的意志和创造能力。

我不是专横，我只是知道你应该做什么。