You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards.
韧性不是人们要么有要么没有的特质。它涉及任何人都可以学习和发展的行为、思想和行动。
帮助人们的最佳方式是给予他们选择的自由,同时温和地引导他们走向正确的方向。
Learning is not just about finding patterns, but about understanding the underlying mechanisms that generate those patterns.
Sometimes, the wicked will tell us things just to confuse us–to haunt our thoughts long after we've faced them.