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The only way to keep the small folk loyal is to make sure they fear you more than they fear your enemies.
You wear your honor like a suit of armor. You think it keeps you safe, but all it does is weigh you down and make it hard for you to move.
The more people you love, the weaker you are.
Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.
When you play the game of thrones, you win or you die. There is no middle ground.