We are all born with a certain package. We are who we are: where we were born, who we were born as, how we were raised. We're kind of stuck inside that person, and the purpose of civilization and growth is to be able to reach out and empathize a little bit with other people.

【释义】就像巍峨的大厦突然轰然倒塌，又像风中残烛昏惨惨地即将熄灭。

因此美名归于君主，而仇怨由臣下担当；安乐归于君主，而忧患由臣下担当。这就是墨翟所说的忠臣。 

你在20多岁时做出的选择将塑造你未来几十年的生活。