不是所有面对的事情都能改变，但在面对之前，什么都不会改变。
人的一生)是祸是福都是自已种下的因果关系(招来的)。
I don't write to be loved, I write to be understood.
解读：这是人生规划的关键三连问，盘点现有资源、明确目标，进而知晓需割舍的东西，合理规划人生走向，避免盲目奔忙。
The best way to measure how much you've grown isn't by inches or the number of laps you can now run around the track, or even your grade point average - though those things are important, to be sure.It's what you've done with your time, how you've chosen to spend your days, and whom you've touched this year. That, to me, is the greatest measure of success.