痛苦是一种语言,只有经历过的人才能理解。
Old paint on canvas, as it ages, sometimes becomes transparent. When that happens it is possible, in some pictures, to see the original lines: a tree will show through a woman's dress, a child makes way for a dog, a large boat is no longer on an open sea. That is called pentimento because the painter 'repented,' changed his mind. Perhaps it would be as well to say that the old conception, replaced by a later choice, is a way of seeing and then seeing again.
“让一步风平浪静,退一步海阔天空”,让步不一定是懦弱,退步不一定是退缩,换个方向,寻求更为有利的支点才是最重要的。宽以待人,得饶人处且饶人,当你包容别人的时候,其实也就放下了自己的成见,就会少了一份纠结,这何尝不是另一种福分呢?利人才会真正利己,人都是相互的。
历史实际上不过是人类罪行、愚蠢和不幸的记录册。
The world is a stage, and we are all actors.