水至清则无鱼，人至察则无徒；冕而前旒，所以蔽明；黈纩充耳，所以塞聪。
水太清了就会见不到鱼，人太精明了就没有朋友。冠冕的玉旒，是用来遮蔽视线；用丝棉塞耳，是为了减弱听觉。
The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway.
In business, as in life, you don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate.
我们大多数人都不是为了理解而听。我们是为了回应而听。