"I write to find myself, but I always end up losing myself."

The reality is: sometimes you lose. And you're never too good to lose. You're never too big to lose. You're never too smart to lose. It happens.

君子对待上司，一定是忠诚而恭敬的；接待下属，必然是谦虚而和悦的。小人对待上司，一定是奉承而献媚的；对待下属，必然是傲慢而残酷的。

与他人一起整理自己的思绪是非常有用的事情。