Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
只怕小人有才能,帮助有才的小人后患无穷;只怕君子无才,无才而处事,即使贤德又有什么补益。
Don't be afraid of failure, be afraid that you don't even dare to try.
我们看待事物的方式、而不是事物本身如何,决定着一切。