建筑师的角色是赋能，而不是强加。

He allowed himself to be swayed by his conviction that human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but that life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.

谷子成熟了才能收获，果子熟了才能剥开皮。比喻凡事不可急于求成。