Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two. Married to a red rose, over time, the red becomes a mosquito blood stain on the wall, while the white remains "moonlight before the bed"; married to a white rose, the white becomes a grain of sticky rice on the clothes, while the red remains a cinnabar mole on the heart.
有些东西不需要达到完美,就已经足够精彩了。特别是婚礼。
If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there.
【原文】司马牛忧曰:“人皆有兄弟,我独亡。”子夏曰:“商闻之矣:‘死生有命,富贵在天’。君子敬而无失,与人恭而有礼。四海之内,皆兄弟也。君子何患乎无兄弟也?”【译文】司马牛忧伤地说:“别人都有兄弟,唯独我没有。”子夏说:“我听说过:‘死生命中注定,富贵由天安排。’君子(只要)敬业而不犯错误,对人恭敬而有礼貌。四海之内都是兄弟呀。君子担心什么没有兄弟呢?”
Sometimes, the most dangerous lies are the ones we tell ourselves.