孔子曰：“益者三乐，损者三乐。乐节礼乐、乐道人之善、乐多贤友，益矣；乐骄乐、乐逸游、乐宴乐，损矣。”
【译文】 孔子说：“有益的爱好有三种，有害的爱好有三种。爱好礼乐、爱好称赞别人的优点，爱好广结善友，有益处；爱好放荡、爱好闲逛、爱好大吃大喝，有害处。”
最伟大的事件并非总是最重要的。
What matters in life is not what happens to you but what you remember and how you remember it.
Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely.
You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.