The problem, as I see it, is that you’ve been told to believe that what you do is of the utmost importance. But that’s all nonsense.

使精神达到玄寂境界，断绝尘世烦恼，这就是涅槃

世界因你的榜样而改变，而不是因你的观点。

I think it's important to have closure in any relationship that ends - from a romantic relationship to a friendship.