文学不是现实的镜子,而是塑造现实的锤子。
过日子就像是上帝在写小说,就让他放开手去写吧。
佛教中有一句话:初学者的心态:拥有初学者的心态是件了不起的事情。
Positive emotions are not trivial luxuries, but instead may be critical necessities for optimal functioning.
The desire to be loved is perhaps the most deeply rooted of all our vanity.