The environment will appear different to different observers depending on what they are prepared to see.
"One way of looking at speech is to say that it is a constant stratagem to cover nakedness."
The stranger is close to us, insofar as we feel between him and ourselves common features of a national, social, occupational, or generally human, nature. He is far from us, insofar as these common features extend beyond him or us, and connect us only because they connect a great many people.